Sunday September 25th 2022

An independent woman – LOVE this blog

Do Not EnterHaving just discovered Kerry Hammerton (where has she been all my life?), I had to share this phenomenal and lip-curlingly brilliant poem of women’s evolution. It wasn’t written by Kerry, but she likes it and so do I.

There’s so little really worth reading. I took my time with this blog – savour it at :

The poem I loved :

Advice given to a young woman leaving home for the first time (in the 1950s) to go to London:

1. Get a secretarial job in a big, successful firm
because that will ‘put you in the path
of the right sort of man.’
2. Never be in the same room as a man
and a bed.
3. Don’t waste your time with any more
studying, it makes women disagreeable.
4. Remember to visit the Queen.
5. Never use the Underground, it is dirty
and full of unsavoury types.
6. Never go into coffee bars,
they are full of germs.
7. Always wear a girdle,
and carry an umbrella.
8. Never go to Soho.

Needless to say,
she disregarded them all.

From The hand that first held mine
by Maggie O’Farrell.
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